Love is in the air! Don't hold your breathe cause it's powerfully contagious. I must admit that once upon a time I disliked this holiday like many people searching for love. It wasn't because I didn't have a Valentine but I had this fantasy of how that day should go. Flowers delivered to my job, expensive gifts, fancy dinner by candle light followed by a night of passion! Simple right? Well the reality is most men are not your typical romance novel fantasy. So I decided to stop setting myself up for disappointment. I had to realize that this day is not just designed for lovers but for the ones you love. My grandmother was born on February 14th. She was love and I had to realize if I wanted that lover I needed to appreciate the love I already had in my life. It does not matter if you don't have a lover for Valentine's day. What matters is, you are healthy, alive and you have family to love you. There's no use in wasting time being depressed on this one day. Are you depressed the other 364 days of the year? You didn't have a lover days prior to V-day and you may not have a lover after V-day. So turn that frown upside down bacause frown lines are not cute! Keep smiling love and remember you are loved. So when Valentine's Day come call the people you love and see how much better you will feel. Tell your mom/dad/sister/brother/uncle/grandpa happy V-day and tell them how much you love them. Make them smile and watch love at its best!